Help! Helping with homework! What to do!
Ah, homework. That word alone can conjure a whirlwind of emotions, right? Whether it's deciphering diagrams or wrestling with historical dates, the homework session can sometimes feel like navigating a jungle of textbooks and half-completed worksheets. Schools vary about what they send home but perhaps this applies to you?
You watch your young child, or perhaps your not-so-young one, grappling with concepts that seem as clear as mud. There's that urge to jump in and shout the answers from the rooftops, but you also know that there's all the juggle of managing things when they're tired or unsure about too.
It's a balancing act! Here's some recommendations from us at Impact.
Creating a consistent homework routine and a dedicated space really helps
Establishing a predictable time each day for homework helps your child develop a sense of routine and makes it a natural part of their day. Designating a specific area in your home as a homework workspace, free from distractions like television or excessive noise, can significantly improve focus and concentration.
Remember you are guiding and asking questions, not doing the work for them
Your role in homework should primarily be that of a guide and supporter, helping your child navigate challenges rather than providing direct answers. You are not there to give them all the answers! Encourage them to think critically by asking questions that prompt them to explain their reasoning or explore different approaches to a problem. Instead of saying "The answer is...", try asking "How did you arrive at that answer?" or "Can you explain your thinking?". Resist the urge to do the homework for them!
We recommend breaking down large homework pieces into smaller, manageable tasks.
Overwhelming homework amounts can lead to frustration. Help your child tackle large projects by breaking them down into smaller, more achievable steps with mini-deadlines for each part. This strategy makes the overall task seem less daunting and provides a sense of accomplishment as each step is completed. For example, if they have a research paper due, break it down into researching, outlining, drafting, and editing stages. This not only makes the task more manageable but also encourages organisation skills. Do your best! This is the tricky negotiating part!
It's also about knowing when to step back and encouraging your child to seek help from the teacher.
While your support is valuable, it's also important to recognise when your child needs assistance that you may not be equipped to provide. Perhaps this is learning you've never done or it seems a long time since you did! If they are consistently struggling with concepts despite your best efforts, or if the homework is beyond your understanding, encourage them to seek help from their teacher. Better still add a note in with their homework letting their techer know you all tried hard but this was tricky! Or alternatively send a quick email to the teacher. Remember it's super important not to make them feel as if they are failing by not completing their homework with you.
Homework is a tricky juggle where tiredness and your relationship with your child may affect the outcome. Turning it around so it is a positive experience is always the aim.
